Aries and Aries
Aries and Aries: a same-sign pair, conjunction aspect. The nominal compatibility score is 78%. Below we break down what goes into it and what does and doesn't work in this pair.
How compatible they are
This is a same-sign pair. Your shared traits match completely: you'll understand each other without having to finish a sentence, but there will be no one to make up for the weak sides. Everything that's strongly pronounced in the sign gets doubled in such a pair, flaws included.
Both signs are cardinal: both are used to initiating and leading. You'll need to agree explicitly on who is responsible for what, or a struggle for the steering wheel is inevitable.
Both bring the same thing to the pair: speed, directness and a willingness to make the first move.
In love
Aries falls in love fast, courts insistently and loses interest if things come too easily, and in this pairing the partner behaves exactly the same way.
Both have the same need: recognition of their lead and the freedom to act without clearing things first. This makes understanding easier and compromise harder: it never occurs to either of you that the partner might need something different.
In marriage and at home
Aries copes poorly with domestic routine: eager to start, rarely finishes. The partner treats domestic life the same way, so either both of you keep it running or nobody does; such couples rarely find a middle ground.
Neither of you likes routine, so rather than splitting the chores “fairly,” outsource whatever you can right away: cleaning, deliveries, bookkeeping.
In friendship and at work this pair is usually more stable than in marriage: there the task sets the roles, while at home they have to be talked through.
The pair's weak spots
In conflict, Aries pushes hard and demands an answer right away, without giving the partner time to think, and gets exactly the same in return. The sign's weak spot doubles in this pairing, and from the outside it looks like going around in circles.
The main risk is the mirror: what irritates you will be exactly what you dislike in yourself.
Advice for the pair
- Both should let the partner finish speaking before objecting.
- And remember that the other person won't do it for you: in a same-sign pair, there's no point expecting the partner to supply the missing quality.
- For both: check whether you're attributing motives to your partner that they don't have.