6
The sixth arcana is the Lovers. The theme of choice and relationships: how a person connects with others.
The resource side
Openness, ease with intimacy, the ability to choose and take responsibility for the choice. In its resource state it brings harmonious relationships and the ability to love without losing oneself.
The shadow side
Indecision and dependence on a partner: fear of choosing, wanting to have it both ways, dissolving into another person until one's own desires are lost.